In life, not all things are created equal. In any social group, there is a need for a structure with a leader and his/her seconds in command, and then the rest, followers, the foot soldiers, the ones who need guidance, the submissive who need a master.

This is true in the animal kingdom and it certainly is with us humans. Every thing in our life is structures around a concept of a leader how leads and those who follow that leader. After all, discipline gives freedom and allows society to express itself by breaking through boundaries and social limitation. True discipline is the road to liberation.

I am a female submissive and love who I am. Of course I am not implying that dominant women are missing out on the joy of the rest of us, submissives, and I am certainly not suggesting that women are born submissive. I know that I am not, and I am fully aware of the sexual control a woman can have over anybody.

But in choosing the role of submissive woman, it is not just the sexual aspect of the submission that turns me on, but also every thing else in my life. I love that I depend on a man stronger than me, a leader who commands and dominates me, takes charge of my life, instructs and guides me along the path he has chosen for me. I am at my very best following the strict set of discipline and rules my ruler has set for me. He is truly my guide, my leader, my master, the very dominant force in our relationships.

I wouldn’t go as far as calling myself his slave, since I willingly accept this role. I am therefore a willing slave, a submissive woman who is eager to please her master, in the bedroom or elsewhere.

There is a common mis-conception suggesting that all submissives owe dominants respect. We don’t. Respect is earned. I do not submit to anyone just because he or she is a dom. In fact I would walk the other way if ever I was introduced as a submissive woman to anyone and then was told by that person to worship him/her. In fact my master would never put me in such a situation anyway.

But as a phone operator earning a living in a phone sex service, I draw on my submissive nature to extend to the world at large my overwhelming need to serve and please my master! (I would not be working in this environment without the explicit approval of my Master and I am thankful to him for allowing me to explore a side of my sexual nature which is a source of my pleasure for me.)

Submissive Phone Sex is not strictly BDSM though as it relates to fantasy where as a natural submissive woman, I willingly allow myself to the fantasy fulfillment object of my dominant callers. Even though it is phone conversation, there is a power exchange between a dominant force and submissive one. My personal life experience allows me to extend my knowledge to my callers in ways they would never have thought possible otherwise.