I met my master right after college. I was applying for a job in advertising and at the very beginning of the interview, coming from nowhere; the man who later became my master asked me point blank if I preferred to be a BDSM slave or a straightforward Submissive Phone Sex Woman.

Not many words had been exchanged between us before these questions and nothing in my demeanor or dress could have possibly revealed such intimate secret about me and so, it is safe to say that I was shocked to the core by how this absolute stranger had managed to see past everything and right into my soul.

This was 9 years ago, my master and I married shortly after the interview and I never got the job. What I got in exchange though was an incredible 9 years of matrimonial bliss during which I have known true happiness.

For those of you who don’t know, there are several levels of submissions in a human relationship between a Master and His submissive wife. They are formulated around the level of limits that a submissive is allowed to have by her Master. Gorean slaves for example have very little limits and they submission are total and complete. BDSM slaves have some measure of limits and thus retain some form of control, however minimal it might be. Out of those three forms of submission, a Submissive has the most amount of control in her relationship with her Master. By control, I mean areas and keywords that can be used when the submissive doesn’t want to submit to her Master at that particular moment.

I am a straightforward submissive wife. I honestly believe that my life is much better if most of its control is in the hands of my Master since he has the innate strength to act in my best interest, even if at times I might not totally agree with it. Surrendering the control of my life to my Master mean that I do not share any of the more mundane worries that most wives have and as such, with a conscience free of all moral restraints, I am able to fulfill my role of a submissive wife to the fullest, which includes serving my master.

The relationship I have with my Master does not stop at what happens at home. Because I am a submissive, I do retain some form of control and may express to my Master a desire not to be publicly treated as a submissive wife in some circumstances. Recently for example, we were both invited by people we had just met and I didn’t feel comfortable acting as my submissive self until I knew them more. Thus my Master treated me as his equal for the duration of the meal, which in itself was an incredible turn on, an act of unselfishness and love on his part causing me to respect and love him even more.

In most relationships there is some form of submission role play. Husbands for example gladly submit to their wives wisdom when it comes to the raising their kids and taking care of their homes. Traditionally, wives submit to their husbands control over the household finances. These forms of submissive behavior are accepted by society as a whole, so I am always surprised when my submission to my husband master in all aspects of my life raises some eyebrows. “How can I call my husband Master they keep on asking me?  Or Sir! How can I address him as “Is Master angry with me?” as opposed to “Are you angry with me?”

Truth is I enjoy it. I enjoy being his submissive wife. I enjoy the fact that his love for me is so unconditional that he is in control of the well fare or my life. I feel safe under the guidance of my Master and will do anything I can to serve him.

And if from time to time, my efforts do not meet with my Master’s approval and he has to punish me, then I accept his punishment with gratitude and happiness, even if said punishment involves a spanking or caning! And the love my Master has for me is so complete that I have never been bruised by his admonitions, how ever severe they might have been!

And there is the matter of sex, an area which is the cause of much dissatisfaction for so many couples out there where the wives are frustrated and unfulfilled and the husbands look elsewhere for what is rightfully theirs.

As a loving submissive wife, I can tell you that I have never felt anything but complete satisfaction in all areas of our sexual lives. It is my role to please my Master, a role which I take at heart, and I adore every inch of him, whether it is in my mouth or inside of me.

I am truly the very happy submissive wife of her master. To know more about my life style, please call me for submissive phone sex.