I know this is going to seem weird to some of you, but I have always been a little shy. In a group, I always tend to be the listener, the one who doesn’t say much and prefers anonymity and discretion over more overt behavior.

In this world where voices bounce back and forth in my head, I have learned, throughout the years to associate voices with characters, intonation with desires and I can now almost always find out more about a person’s character just listening to him/her talk.

This talent has of course come in handy in my job, busy as I am discussing things of a very personal nature with complete strangers, over the phone. Yes, I am a phone sex operator, and in this line of work where the only clues I have over a person’s desires are the words he chooses (or doesn’t), the sighs and silences, my ability to listen, really listen has served me well.

We have all heard that our most potent sexual organ is our brain and not a day goes by when I am not reminded how true this really is. For most of us, me included, the suggestion of sex starts with a thought which then travels downwards and what we do with that thought always determines the end result.

Of course, the skills of a talented phone sex operator do not just limit themselves to listening. There is an exchange of hidden desires bouncing back and forth between caller and operator, and unless the caller is fully at easy with describing his inner fantasies, (something which is not always the case) then the operator will have to rely on her sensorial senses, to determine what is that the caller really wants.

Take my latest caller for example a young man in his early twenties with a sexy voice and the demeanor of someone who comes from a cultured and educated background. During the initial chit chat necessary to find out the direction of any call, I couldn’t quite put my hand on what it was really that he wanted to enact. Sure his voice was a turn on and the description of his body was enough for me to imagine sex with a creature of dreams made to measure just for me. (After all this is phone sex and one can be just about anyone!).

After some poking around with the usual fantasies, I could see that this young man was finding it really hard to express himself and I decided to back track and asked him to describe himself once more to me.

I told him that I would let him talk for a couple of minutes without interruption, and that I would just listen, trying to imagine him in the flesh right next to me.

As he began to describe himself I could sense that he was talking about a body in great physical shape with the necessary 6 packs and powerful muscles which he spent some time talking about. You imagine that this was having a toll on me but after all this was his fantasy call, not mine, and I forced myself to focus on the words he used. Towards the end of his self description it finally dawned on me. This young man had just used the best part of 2 minutes describing his body in great details, but not telling me much at all about his dick. I could just visualize him now, naked, strong and muscled and asked him point blank: “you have a tiny dick don’t you!”

This was it. It was the very common tiny dick phone sex fantasy and it took him all of the next 30 seconds to shoot his first load.

Men with tiny dicks are usually extremely talented phone sex callers. I suspect they make wonderful lovers as well and it is perhaps because of their perceived inadequate size that they try to compensate by improving their skills. On the phone, sex with them is usually a memorable experience and I love it when I get a tiny dick phone sex request. It nearly always ends up with an orgasm for me which is always a nice perk, a tip so to speak from a very satisfied caller.

The tiny dick phone call is form of domination where a dominant woman makes fun of her lover’s small dick. Domination in this case also draws on other aspects of sexuality such as mommy phone sex where a caring woman takes care and cajoles her baby lover little dick as only true mothers would do. Of course this role play at its best which is why phone sex is so very wonderful for the exploration of all our inner kinks!

Do you have a tiny dick? Phone me for sex then and let’s have some fun!