You are probably surprised that a professional in clinical psychology should elect to pour her soul on a phone sex web site. I am too. Or perhaps, I would have been a few years ago, busy as I was running around in circle trying to help those who’s preferences and orientations in terms of their sexuality. You see, my profession presented me with all kinds of circumstances which were determined to be “un” ordinary by society and one such aspect of these behaviors was sexual fetishism.

In fact such is the diversity of the human psyche that I would challenge anyone to define precisely what fetish really is, be it sexually or otherwise. It used to be that anyone who would give extraordinary attention to a singular inanimate object or body part was considered to have a fetish. But with the rise of erotica on the internet, these specific attentions have been broadened to include sexual behavior classified beyond the accepted criteria of common sexuality.

Sexual fetishism is thus a combination of all of the above, a statement that the modern fetishist includes in his/her sexual preferences a range of objects, personal behavior, an attraction towards isolated parts of the body etc..

For that purpose therefore, fetishism also includes domination and its derivatives such as submission, feminization etc.., and most of the sexual orientations defined by the word fetish are thus just a normal variation of human sexuality. Fetishism is justified and unobjectionable as long as all parties are willing to participate in this form of sexuality.

My personal fetish for example is a specific part of a male body. Not that part! Which of course I also happen to love but there is nothing that turns me on more than a nice ass on a person. Something about the shape, the feeling, the muscles makes my senses go wild and truth is, it’s not just men’s asses that get me going. There are women out there with the cutest “derrière” which I have died for.

I am no longer a practicing clinical psychologist and my friends are always amazed when I tell them I speak with men on the phone for sex. If phone sex is good enough for some of our political leaders, then it is certainly good enough for me and besides, I like to think that I am particularly good at it.

You know what they say: Once a psychologist always a psychologist, once a fetishist, always a fetishist who wants more. More fetish fantasies, more kinky conversations about the human psyche and what makes us all tick, more telephone calls with men who tell me they have the most wonderful ass possible and what I should do to it.

Anal sex often comes to mind, but that is a different fetish all together!